Introduction:
Are
you in a relationship in which you still love the other person, but it just
feels like it’s going nowhere? Are you battling with them on a daily basis? Do
you feel like the things your significant other used to give you, you just
aren’t getting anymore?
We
live in a disposable society, and it’s easy to dispose of and write off a
relationship that has hit a few snags. The question is, though, how hard are
you really trying to reignite the flame? It takes two to end a relationship. So
stop blaming the other person, and start suggesting things to reignite the
fire.
Today
I am going to help you with this. I am not going to suggest you to be more
romantic or, will I ask you to make her happy because things like that, you
know already but the actual problem is with your perspective to see love. I am not
going to speak my words, as my experiences might not cover the vast
sea of love birds so......
So
I am collecting some of the most self-explanatory quotes to explain the love
songs to you and language can never explain purity, it requires
literature.
10. “When a woman is talking to you, listen
to what she says with her eyes.” — Victor Hugo
She
might be speaking angry, or not speaking at all but her eyes might be crying
out loud, that you missed early.
9. “Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their
tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the
words ‘forever.’ But love can only truly be measured by actions. It can be a small thing,
such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don’t
like doing
it.” — Marian Keyes
S/He
might be keeping the same love alive but you might not have noticed.
8. “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.” — Joseph F.
Newton Men
Don't confine your love within. Make her feel it every once in a while by actions.
7. “Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely,
with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand
and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may
hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that.
Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to
remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.” — Kaleel Jamison
Sometimes letting them to be in their own for a while is the best option.
6. “When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us.
When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re
still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising.
This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can
add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to
delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every
relationship we enter.” — Tom Robbins
If
you or your partner think likely then you guys need to know this that no one's
gone make you feel any better, if you go for physical things. Look for the
soul.
5. “Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t
over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can
only be nurtured by genuineness. " – Leo F. Buscaglia
Every
time you go for a theory for your condition don't over think it, 'cause your
love might not be think so. Ask your trusted ones first, before jumping to
conclusion.
4. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make
the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor
is attitude.” – William James
If
anger and conflict is the thing tearing you guys apart then don't ever let your
attitude take over 'cause it will grow into arrogance and that's what happens
to most.
3. “We are afraid to care too much; for fear that the other person does not
care at all.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
If
s/he decrease paying attention towards you don't do the same just in the above
stated feel because s/he might also be thinking so.
2. “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.” — Henry Winkler
Don't
ever try to assume other's thought and feeling because assumption might go
wrong most of the time. If you ''THINK" s/he thinks something then don't
stop in "THOUGHT" go and confirm.
1. “As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience
another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of
the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical
beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is
only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For
example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your
relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by
their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior.
Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only
process them in your mind.” — Wayne Dyer
Don't
act like a little kid who only pays attention to word and actions. Be the one
who can see through him/her. If you are thinking s/he is going far from you
then think once again, is it just your thought or not. Don't make an image for
anything without knowing the actual case 'cause once you think something you can
never undo a thought and that can be the poison that kills you love.
Introduction:
9. “Some think love can be measured by the amount of butterflies in their tummy. Others think love can be measured in bunches of flowers, or by using the words ‘forever.’ But love can only truly be measured by actions. It can be a small thing, such as peeling an orange for a person you love because you know they don’t like doing
it.” — Marian Keyes
8. “People are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges.” — Joseph F. Newton Men
7. “Relationships-of all kinds-are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.” — Kaleel Jamison
6. “When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or a few months of a relationship, we find that we’re still unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody more promising. This can go on and on–series polygamy–until we admit that while a partner can add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us, and to believe otherwise is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program for eventual failure every relationship we enter.” — Tom Robbins
5. “Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations. Don’t over-analyze your relationships. Stop playing games. A growing relationship can only be nurtured by genuineness. " – Leo F. Buscaglia
4. “Whenever you’re in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.” – William James
3. “We are afraid to care too much; for fear that the other person does not care at all.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
2. “Assumptions are the termites of relationships.” — Henry Winkler
1. “As you think so shall you be! Since you cannot physically experience another person, you can only experience them in your mind. Conclusion: All of the other people in your life are simply thoughts in your mind. Not physical beings to you, but thoughts. Your relationships are all in how you think about the other people of your life. Your experience of all those people is only in your mind. Your feelings about your lovers come from your thoughts. For example, they may in fact behave in ways that you find offensive. However, your relationship to them when they behave offensively is not determined by their behavior, it is determined only by how you choose to relate to that behavior. Their actions are theirs, you cannot own them, you cannot be them, you can only process them in your mind.” — Wayne Dyer
Conclusion:
Lastly thank you for reading and hope this
helps you save your love. If you ask me my personal opinion then I will just
say one thing that if his/her any action affect you, whether it was laughing,
scolding or anything at all, then know that you still love him/her 'cause
love's synonym is "AFFECTion". And same applies to
your partner too. Make him/her realize this. Give him/her time to
know that s/he still loves you and you will surely find you love hidden in
the shadow.
Thank you again for reading and if I helped then it's my pleasure. If you think that something is missing then let us know. Also if you guys have a story to tell us then don't forget to leave a comment. We always like to read a story.
PEACE!!!
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